Fix searching of kernel_source_tree for kernel built with O option

Fix searching of kernel_source_tree for kernel built with O option

When generating kernel module for a systemtap script that uses trace-point
probe, if the vanilla kernel is built by using O=build_path option and
r=build_path option is passed to stap, stap will not be able to find
kernel_source_tree and will fail on pass-2.

Linux kernel will create a symlink named source to the source tree
for out-of-source build since (399b835be30e "kbuild: add a symlink
to the source for separate objdirs"), so fix the problem by checking
whether or not the symlink exists and using it as the kernel_source_tree.

Also using a new helper dir_exists() instead of file_exists() to
ensure the existence of the directory of source tree.

Signed-off-by: Hou Tao <houtao1@huawei.com>