Add --addnodeonresume, --addnodeoncreate

Add --addnodeonresume, --addnodeoncreate

Add new function dm_task_set_add_node() to select between 2 types
of node creation in device directory.

DM_ADD_NODE_ON_RESUME is now default and ensures node is created on
resume. Old original behavior is accessible with DM_ADD_NODE_ON_CREATE.
In this case node would be created during dmsetup create --notable.

For the user 2 new options for dmsetup create are added:
[{--addnodeonresume | --addnodeoncreate }]

Properly working node creation on resume is needed for proper operation
stacking and ability to correctly check in which state the device should
after whole udev transation.