Try to handle concurrent close on socket more gracefully
* fhandler_socket.cc (LOCK_EVENTS): Don't enter critical section with
invalid mutex handle since then socket has been closed.
(UNLOCK_EVENTS): Close critical section.
(fhandler_socket::evaluate_events): Handle calling connect on shutdown
socket.
(fhandler_socket::wait_for_events): Try for pthread_testcancel in case
of WAIT_FAILED. Try to come up with a better errno in case we waited
on an invalid handle.
(fhandler_socket::release_events): Change wsock_mtx and wsock_evt to
NULL under lock to avoid accessing invalid handle.