snapshot: use single merging sequence

snapshot: use single merging sequence

The resume of 'released' 'COW' should preceed the resume of origin.
The fact we need to do the sequence differently for merge was
cause by bugs fixed in 2 previous commits - so we no longer need
to recognize 'merging' and we should always go with single
sequence.

The importance of this order is - to properly remove  '-real' device
from origin LV. When COW is activated as 2nd. '-real' device is
kept in table as it cannot be removed during 1st. resume of origin,
and later activation of COW LV no longer builds tree associated
with origin LV.